Thursday, July 8, 2010

Recollections of J. Press and my Father

Even on the bowsprit, he was never without his camera.
When I was 3, my father first took me to the J. Press store in New Haven (where it remains today). And we went over a hundred times since.

He always seemed to get a parking spot on York Street right in front of the store. Each visit, my father would wait for Gabe, the legendary (some would say infamous) J. Press salesman. I always remembered Gabe's desert boots. My father and Gabe would begin by verbally sparring with great enthusiasm. He liked looking around, but my father always ended up buying the same items: three-button suits; navy blazers; button-down shirts; seersucker, tweed, and pincord jackets; bow-ties; madras shirts; and whipcord pants.

I never knew if Gabe remembered my father’s size, or figured it on the spot, but always handed him the right suit. Ralph the tailor would take the measurements, though they seldom changed. I never saw any money exchange hands; J. Press had a house charge.

My father would then walk through the narrow connecting doorway to Barrie’s, the shoe store next door, again look around, and then buy the same shoes (cordovan Chukka Boot Shells) he always bought. Finally, he would take me for a hamburger on white toast at Louis Lunch.

Receiving an award at the home of Rhode Island Senator Claibrone Pell (I have always loved the madras/tweed combination).
It was unquestioned that when planning our wedding, my husband’s wedding party would also be outfitted at J. Press. (I will never forget Gabe responding to one of them, with fixed lips, that J. Press did not carry pants with pleats!) And like my father, they all walked next door to Barrie’s for their White Bucks. As a finishing touch, we had Brown University buttons sewn on the Navy Blazers, where they all had met and graduated together.

The sad news of Gabe’s passing was delivered when my husband and I went to get a new suit a handful of years back. But J. Press has stayed the same. The same chairs are there. The same pictures are tucked away in the corners.

And the same uniquely fabulous suits are there. Now we go for the third generation. I cannot imagine buying a suit anywhere else.

Classic J. Press

20 comments:

Ryan Plano said...

What a great memory! I very much liked the remark about the pleats. Thanks for another wonderful post!

Seven Dates a Week said...

That was a great story. Very moving. I'm a huge J Press fan. In fact, I received a new cotton madras bowtie in the mail today from J Press. Wearing it for casual Friday. Keep up the great blogging work...I'll have to go back and read your past posts.

heavy tweed jacket said...

Great images of your father and thoughts about J. Press that convey the essence of a truly American style.

Don said...

Great blog. Keep up the good work.

intrepid said...

Outstanding account of JP, New Haven!

My trusted friend there was Frank York, although Gabe was always there, and an important part of the environment.

Ralph was a real jewel. Occasionally, I'd find a sale item that Frank and I thought would be great, if it could be tailored to fit.

It was always a refreshing encounter with integrity, when Ralph occasionally said "I'm sorry, sir, that just won't do."

Jack Kennedy came from Barrie, next door, and became a vital part of JP.

Keep up the good work!

Barbara said...

Great post on your Dad. Just found your blog and read some earlier posts.
Best wishes,
BarbaraG

ADG said...

Loved reading your J Press story. Just wrote a little ditty about Cambrige J Press and the Andover Shop-also a legendary place.

sorrentolens said...

What a great story! I could smell the tweed and leather in the words. I have many of the same memories of J. Press and Barrie Ltd. I was recently in New Haven and stopped at Press and came home with a few things.

Great blog!

Tickled Pink And Green said...

My mom and daughter (then around 5) went to the J Press store in New Haven about 10 years ago. It's the only one I've been to. My hubby graduated from Brown (Class of '87)...he played tennis there...
:)

Reggie Darling said...

Gabe used to be my salesman at Press when I was an undergraduate at Yale, and was my father's before me. Great post! Reggie

Muffy Aldrich said...

Thanks, Reggie. I love the multi-generations!

Mark Rood said...

What a wonderful post. I stumbled upon while searching which J. Press store was the favorite of their customers. I too love J. Press. Your father sounds like a man with taste and heart.

Bob Gall said...

You've posted a few items about your father. He must have been a very accomplished man. Would you be willing to share a little about him?

Muffy Aldrich said...

Bob,

I will be writing more about my father and posting more of his pictures in entries to come. Thank you for your kind words.

Squeeze said...

I just came across across your post a year+ plus later and found it a very moving account. Enjoyed lunch recently with Ralph Chieffo Jr., J. Press employe for 52 years who followed his father in the same capacity as chief designer and fitter at York Street. Over a tearful repast we regaled each other of times past in what we regarded equally as "family." As Contributing Writer at Ivy Style I would delight sharing similar J. Press recollections that I am storing for further disclosure........Richard Press

Muffy Aldrich said...

@Squeeze - You have a Guest Post open invitation - just email me. I have enjoyed your Ivy Style pieces.

Tim said...

Muffy, your father does indeed look stylish in the tweed-madras combination. But what colour tweed is it? He's wearing brown in one of the other shots, but you've as good as blacklisted brown: 'should be used by experts only'. Is brown OK in tweed?

Muffy Aldrich said...

@Tim - I did write that the color Brown should be left to the experts, and this would obviously include J. Press! Brown can be marvelous in a Harris Tweed or a high quality leather product.

Tim said...

OK, thanks Muffy. I think I'm going to try the brown tweed blazer from the LL Bean Signature Line. I know you have your doubts about the SL, but said item looks pretty solid and J Press don't have theirs in stock at present; it must be a seasonal item.

Anonymous said...

Muffy have you seen the York Street collection on the J ptess web site? Frightening to say the least.