This is my favorite time of year (I don’t like hot weather). Temperatures and dew points drop. The crispness of the fall air and the palette of the leaves seem to perfectly frame so many wonderful locations. There is also an energy for both work and play after the dog days of August, and increasingly September, that makes activities almost effortless.
Yet, it can also be melancholy. This is when many cottages and boats are put away for the season. It is the inexorable arrival of the expiration date that has been stamped on every summer venue.
With experience on the Maine coast, a New Hampshire lake and the Vineyard, it is interesting to note that despite the difference in the tone of the properties, the “end of the season” feeling is remarkably similar.
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| Saying Good-bye... |
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| ...to things we will miss during winter. |
Perhaps even more so than with birthdays, there is some taking of stock. How many summer ambitions were realized? How many goals were planned but put off, until time slipped away? There is even the uncomfortable realization that many of the best moments of the season came out of sheer luck – a great day trip, for example, that happened only because several random factors lined up.
And for many who are older during the time of closing, the stakes are higher. There is the often unspoken “Will I still be here in the spring to open?” Or will close friends? Regardless of our age, we run through, almost zoetropically, moments of past summers and friends who shared them, and then race forward into the unknown. How will we be different next time we are here?
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| Here my great-grandfather on the right at his cottage on the Connecticut shore. |
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| Some things go in; some stay out. |
| Sheets go, quilts remain. |
This is also the time to plan for next summer. Painters, brush-clearers, and carpenters are lined up for spring. (An early commitment insures that the work will be done; demand will soar as next summer looms)
| Making Arrangements for the Winter and Next Spring |
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| Sometimes a small rock is quickly grabbed as a remembrance. |
Then there is the actual act of driving away. This can take several attempts, for there is always “one last look at the view” before you all actually head out, combined with making sure every window is really shut (although catching the ferry does not afford one such capriciousness, as reservations are a sacred contract). Every milestone on the trip is painted with the same macabre “last of the season” brush.
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| From our archives: A Vineyard beach... |
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This is also true for the sailing season, providing of course, that the boat is not going south for the winter.
At the boat yard not only was this the very last day of launch service, but we were the very last launch pick-up.
| We reminisced while putting things away. Tasks were done, first quickly and then increasingly slowly. |
...and then a few minutes after that.
It was getting dark. Newport and the Newport Bridge were lighting up. It could not be put off any longer. There were trains back to NYC to be caught.
He generously gave us a “victory lap”.
So another season concluded for all of us. But the sad feelings always fade away as plans for the next season start to take shape on the ride to the train.
On one hand, I sometimes feel as if we live our entire lives every day. On the other, we have the opportunity to get wiser and live better. Each tick of the metronome - each hour, day, season, year, and yes, generation - reminds us of the sublime substance of time.








24 comments:
This post is so lovely, it brought tears to my eyes. Thank you.
These rituals of closing up and packing up, well as the opposite ones of opening up and starting up, act like a frame in a story. They give dimension and scale to human activities. A closing can be sad and act as a momento mori, but it also increases our happiness in activities which are more special because of their limited time-frames.
--Road to Parnassus
Exquisite! Thank you for this . . . Marquand or Cheever could not have said it better.
Schooner looks super cute! And I am quite sad for the best parts of summer to draw to a close, as much as I like autumn and winter.
You capture so accurately the poignancy of valedictory autumn rituals. It is much the same on Lake Michigan, although this year the summer seems to have lengthened--not entirely a good thing.
Lady Aldrich,
You have truly pin-pointed it. I was caught off-guard by the absolute accuracy of what is done, felt, and experienced in these situations. The seasons themselves seemed shortened, and the exquisite moments of summer evaporate acutely. If the summer itself it short, these punctuations of seasonal routine are almost nano-sparks, and you caught the sweet, somber, and sad flavor better than most I've read. I sat and gave a complicated sigh after reading, because you allowed my spine to relive the sensation. Thank you.
I feel such melancholy as each photo and caption were read...such a lovely tribute to an annual transition.
Best wishes for your 'wintering' abode...hopefully warm..South Florida is in the lovely 70s already.
Take care,
Linda
Excellent photos and account. I've never been to New England, choked up by this post. From the desert and feeling a little envious of the season changes you see.
What a great post, I don't even do any of these things but I very much enjoyed it.
I loved this post, as it so eloquently sums up the changing of the seasons for me, and their significance on my life. Could you ever imagine living in a place with just one season? I don't think I ever could.
Just like YWP does, we pull out the old wood modular docks every year. If you dont the ice will tear them apart or the icefishermen will use them for firewood.
I noticed the quilt on the bed: W-K-M-P, M-R-W-K, etc. Is there any meaning or are they only random?
@Anonymous - They are totally random - L.L. Bean "end of season" sale quite a few years back.
Muffy you have such a way with words.." Your our Wordsworth of the style world."
Superb. Nicely written and too true. The winters on the Gulf Islands of British Columbia are relatively mild so we don't have to close our summer home. But the transition from Summer to Fall is distinct and much is still "put away."
I have chronicled our year in a less personal way than "The Daily Prep" here:
http://skyaboveearthbelow.com/
This is so poignant and authentic, Muffy. I'm more moved by our beginnings and endings/openings and closings as I get older. Thank you. XOXO
That post was right on point. The end of each season of the year or of our lives marks a moment to reflect. The post reminded me of a story I love reading to my children - The Time of Wonder by Robert McCloskey. My son at almost nine probably thinks he is too old for McCloskey, but one is never too old for such a lovely story. Thanks for such a delightful post.
Best regards,
JRC
Loved this. Amen. And thank you.
Gosh, this did so resonate with me as I also spent the weekend on final outdoor chores. When I traipsed back and forth to the compost bin after clearing the deck of pots and the last of the grass clippings, I felt melancholic. Unseasonably warm temps and a later-than-usual block party had goaded me in to believing summer was not going to end despite the autumnal color pervading.
Today's blustery winds in advance of a 30-degree temperature drop are yanking the leaves from the trees and blanketing lawns still green. I absolutely adore fall but do not relish the prospect of blizzards. Tomorrow I will clothe myself in a sweater and boots and retire my trusty flip-flops for the next 6 months. I found some much needed solace in reading your post. ;(
I wish you would consider writing a book, perhaps one about a year in your life, chronicling the seasons and events of authenticity, stewardship, and graciousness.
Magical and eloquent - feels like an old friend slipping away – I hope you never stop this beautiful blog, it is good for our souls.
I am so enjoying this blog! Excellent! I am with anonymous on the tremendous potential for a lovely book. Coffee table perhaps? I am sure it would be beautifully photographed! Also, I was wondering if you were interested in updating your list/analysis of preppy shopping sites? The last one was June 2010, I believe. Anyone to add? Subtract? How're they doing in your opinion? Thanks!
What a great essay.
dear muffy,
i'm with those encouraging you to write a book. it would be elegantly simple and simply elegant.
i loved the kiss schooner gave you. and that smiling face! and the little terrier looking back in the picture with both dogs...
this post almost is an allegory for life itself. and you did it so beautifully. thank you!
love with admiration,
tammy j
Enjoying your blog! In Virginia, the end of sailing season means cubbing with the new entry, apples, Thanksgiving, Hunt Ball, Christmas, Mistletoe- and so it goes- always something to look forward to in each new season.
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